The ability to succeed is innate. Some guys are unstoppable by fate; they march forward at a jaunty pace and claim the best of what the earth has to offer by divine right. But it is not the Samuel Smiles-Connecticut policy that makes them successful. They don't fawn, lie in wait, devise plans, or try to change their course to appeal to the masses. However, they remain vigilant and receptive to any advantage that may present itself, and when it does, they seize it without hesitation and proceed steadily.
Well-being! Draw your chin in, hold your head high, and fill your lungs to the brim every time you step outside; Enjoy the sunshine, smile when you see your friends, and put your heart into every handshake.
Don't worry about being misinterpreted, and don't waste time worrying about your adversaries. Try to make sure you have a clear idea of what you want to accomplish so that you may proceed directly to it without being misguided.
Hatred is the shoal that many baroques are trapped on, and fear is the rock that splits us. We have unshipped the rudder when we detest; if we ever pause to consider what the rumors say, we have let a hawser to foul the screw; and when we get afraid, the judgment is as untrustworthy as the compass of a ship whose hold is full with iron ore.
You will find yourself unconsciously taking advantage of the opportunities that are necessary to fulfill your desire, just as the coral insect takes the necessary elements from the running tide, if you keep your mind focused on the great and splendid thing you want to do. Imagine yourself as the capable, sincere, and helpful person you aspire to be, and imagine your thoughts constantly changing you into the person you much respect.
The most important thing is to think, and thinking is frequently preferable to doing.
Maintain a positive mindset that is courageous, honest, and upbeat.
According to Darwin and Spencer, this is how creation happened. Every animal has developed the parts that it requires and wants. The duck has a web foot because it wants to swim, the bird soars because it wants to, and the horse is fast because he wants to be. Desire is the source of everything, and every earnest plea is heard. When our hearts are set on something, we become like that.
Although many people are aware of this, their lives are not sufficiently shaped by their lack of knowledge. We plot, run after powerful individuals, and wait for nice people or supposedly good people in the hopes of being able to attach ourselves to them because we desire friends. Being a friend is the only way to ensure friendship. And you have to be able to live without friendship before you are ready for it. In other words, you need to be self-sufficient enough to look after yourself before you can use the extra energy to help others.
A person who longs for friendship but is more interested in a self-centered mindset will always have friends.
Develop isolation rather than social interaction if you have friends. Inhale the ozone, soak up the sunlight, and repeatedly tell yourself, "I am a part of all my eyes behold!" while you are outside in the quiet night and beneath the stars. You will then have the impression that you are an essential component of the whole, not just an intruder between earth and heaven. You cannot suffer injury that does not affect others, and if you do perish, it will merely be amidst a jumble of worlds.
As with old Job, we shall undoubtedly experience what we fear. By adopting a negative mindset, we have started a chain of events that will ultimately lead to catastrophe. Almost always, people who have been prepared for death are the ones who pass away from illness in their middle years. A chronic state of mind, which is the product of a sequence of events, is the simple cause of the acute tragic situation.
The way we spend our time and our mental attitude both contribute to our character. Our identity is shaped by our thoughts and actions.
You become powerful with the forces of the universe by grasping upon them. When you understand this, all else becomes simple because red corpuscles will flow through your arteries and a decided resolve to act and be will be born in your heart. Keep the top of your head up and your chin in. In the chrysalis, we are gods.